I know , my last post was way way back, what caught me motherhood. Running behind my kid phew , so I got an idea why not pen down something for all mommies.

A mother is the most fakest character you can imagine you know why.? Because a mother even if she is hell tired or frustrated she will still make her kid(s) happy . Her body might be aching with pain but she will still carry her kid on her lap . Her heart might be sobbing or crying for so many other reasons but she will laugh smile play with her kid so that her kid gets a peaceful happy environment. That’s why I say mother is the most fakest person. Why we fake , why don’t we just cry our heart out when we feel like in front of our kids or yell show our frustration because we feel if we do so , it will sink our child heart . Mother’s child will become sad . Hmm , such an unrewarding Job isn’t it ?

One day I was driving to work and you know the morning is the most Stressful time, as you have to make sure your kid is ready , you are ready , everything is ready for school and work . If you wake up 5 minutes late in the morning then your schedule is haywire . So while driving I was thinking man I have become a robot , all the I do is wake up get my son ready , get ready , go to work , just focus on work , then when the clock hits 5pm brain starts hammering that you have to leave now as you got to pick up son , take him to activities , make dinner, help him do his homework , play with him, shower and get him ready for bed. Phew my day still didn’t end , he has to sleep then forcefully I tell myself get your me time that’s may be by reading about some Bollywood gossips 😇 or watching some food channel . So a complete robot 😭 . Ahh ,so I asked myself what if someone comes and tells me go simran jee le Apni zindagi haha me being Bollywood , it’s a famous Bollywood movie dialogue which means go and live your life . I know what will be my reaction or action , I’ll just give a blank look as I really don’t know what is life ? I cannot imagine myself beyond this robotic life . So what realization , we all love our robotic life isn’t it . This is the life ! We are human , but how long , once your kid goes to college what are you going to do ? You will have your ample me time but then what are you going to do. It scares me . Wake up , we all need to have a hobby or grow some hobby that will make you a human again otherwise we all will turn into a zombie . You can do this . I was telling one of my colleague that don’t worry for a mother to sail in agile environment is easy coz the moment a woman turns mother she is in agile environment, there is no scope for water fall methodology. My blog friends , waterfall and agile environment are terms of software development , what to do can’t leave my work behind. You can develop a hobby or something interest which will make your brain active . Let’s grow some hobbies my friends . I’m yet to find out what will keep me busy when my kid goes to college.

You know why I said few lines before that the motherhood job is a full time job but with no bonus or no promotion or no appreciation, do you agree ? Each and every passions or dreams takes a backseat to embrace the rewards or the promotions when your kid grows to a pure human being not making poor

choices , helping others , walking on the path of honesty , taking of care of others feelings , isn’t 😍?

So to all mommies here is the recipe from my kitchen to yours 😊💕.

Shrimp stuffed inside pumpkin or bottle gourd or zucchini leaf

Steps

1. Finely chop onions , garlic, green chillies and coriander leaves .
2. Make a paste of mustard seeds with grated coconut .
3. Chop jumbo shrimp.
4. In a bowl , mix shrimp , with chopped onions, garlic, green chillies, coriander leaves, mustard paste, salt to taste , pinch of sugar .

5. Keep this mixture for 10 minutes aside.

6. In a separate bowl, make a batter by mixing gram flour , turmeric powder, red chilli powder and salt.

7. Now stuff the shrimp mixture inside the leaf , fold it nicely and dip it inside the batter.

‘ 8. Now deep fry the fritters. It doesn’t take much time . Fry for 7-8 minutes , it’s done. Serve hot with white rice. Just try this finger licking food. You can present this as starter too.

Cheers to all the mommies. Adious until I come back💕